Just to help keep things straight:
Me, OpalCat/Katherine, born February 11, 1972 in Tucson, Arizona, currently living in Massachusetts, about a half-hour west of Boston. Married in 1991 at age 19, which lasted 15 years; remarried in 2009 at 37.
Dominic, my son, born September 15, 1995.
Dan, my husband, born February 22, 1977; originally from Atlanta, Georgia, who attended podiatry school in Cleveland, OH, and with whom I currently live in Massachusetts. Met at a juggling convention.
Rob, my ex- husband, born October 29, 1969. Born in Ohio, raised in Phoenix, Arizona. Works as a unix sysadmin. One of my best friends.
My mom, an attorney, raised in New York, lives in Arizona, born November 1952. Divorced from my dad when I was a baby.
My dad, an engineer, raised in Connecticut, lives in Tennessee (formerly Florida), born in July 1952. Currently married to his third wife with whom he has 5 natural children and one stepson.
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Sherry, my dad’s wife. They were married in 1992.
Christian, Caleb, Bailey, Kaely, Kindall, my siblings by my dad and Sherry, the eldest of which is only a few years older than my son.
Aaron, Sherry’s son and my step/half brother. Born November 1982. My father legally adopted him when he was eleven.
Sonia, a nurse, lived with my mom from the time I was three. Raised in Minnesota. Died in 1995 of breast cancer. She was like a second mother to me.
Barry, my godmother. She’s a sort of hippy lady, and a lesbian. She was with Kathleen for most of my childhood, but they broke up when I was about 17.
Kathleen, she was Barry’s partner for aeons, but they broke up when I was about 17. She is my son’s godmother, and lives with her partner out in the boonies west of Tucson, AZ.
Maternal grandparents:
Granddaddy, a pediatrician, died from cancer in 2002 at the age of 92 in Connecticut.
Grammy, a nurse, died when I was in 7th grade, of cancer.
Paternal grandparents:
Grandma Doll, who was my favorite person for most of my childhood. Lived in Connecticut. Died from cancer in 1987, on her husband’s birthday, the same day a friend from school died. She was 59, I believe.
Grandpa Doll, married my grandmother when my dad was a child. Died a few years ago.
Granddad, divorced from my grandmother when my dad was a child, lived in Florida, married 3 times, died when I was in high school following surgery to treat a brain tumor.
Various aunts and uncles.
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